February 2010 forecast for Ox

If there is a time to dare to be different, to not follow the herd, then start in Tiger month. You can even borrow the bold stripes of the tiger fur and wear it as if were your own coat. Tiger energies spur you on to feel even more comfortable in your own skin and to turn your back on conventional wisdom. Other people’s ideals and standards can stay right where they belong, with other people, and have no seat at your table of plans for the future.

No need for you to give your power away by feeling trapped by what other people think. Know that your power comes from within and being able to say ‘No’, is your prerogative. For the sake of a quiet life, you may have given in to people and situations in the past. Be prepared for some shock reactions as you stand your ground and refuse to go along with what does not suit you. You are no longer bending backwards, instead you are pushing forwards and if others want to come along too, they are welcome. Equally, you are contented to go your own way.

Love

Compromises are a necessary ingredient in the recipe for a harmonious relationship. Think of what you throw in to the mixture. If your other half has thrown in a good measure, all well and good. Otherwise, you need to point out what they need to put in to avoid a recipe for disaster. Single Oxen, what compromises are you prepared or not prepared to make when it comes to love.

Career

Creative thinking will get you far this month. It will attract the attention of your superiors, but that does not mean they will automatically like your ideas. The risks associated with doing things differently can seem scary to those used to the old ways. Be persuasive yet bold in order to win over those in positions of influence.

Money

Be prepared to come out of negotiations with no deal if agreement cannot be reached. Do not try to make a financial arrangement fit, if you already know that it would not be right for you. Hunt down a better offer, but remain realistic in your expectations of what is available in the world of money and business.